3 Simple Steps to Selling Anything in Life

Yes, including yourself...

I think salespeople get a bad rep.

Yeah, I said it. And no, Iā€™m not referring to those sleazy car salesmen that everyone seems to hate (there are times when their bad rep can definitely be well deserved haha).

Iā€™m referring to you. Yes, YOU.

Because truth is, weā€™re all salesmen and women when it comes down to it.

No matter who you are or what you do, there are times when youā€™re going to have to sell yourself.

Job interview? You gotta sell yourself. College essay? You gotta sell yourself. Asking that one girl out that you think is kinda cute? You definitely gotta sell yourself.

Luckily, there are only three simple steps you need if you want to sell anything in life.

Hereā€™s what youā€™ll learn today:

  • The 3 simple steps to sell literally anything

  • Why it works so well

  • How you can use it

Alright, letā€™s get to it!

3 Simple Steps to Sell Anything in LifešŸ’²

There are problems in life. Tons of problems.

You experience them. I experience them. Everyone around you experiences them.

Fortunately, for every problemā€¦ thereā€™s a solution. Whether itā€™s big or small or whether you realize it or not, there is a solution for every problem.

Are you starting to pick up what Iā€™m putting down?

At the core of it all, selling anything in life is simply offering a solution to a painful problem.

Which is exactly where the PAS framework comes into play.

Whatā€™s the PAS framework, you ask? It stands for:

  • P - Problem

  • A - Agitate

  • S - Solution

Sure, itā€™s one of the most known, most used copywriting frameworks out there.

But above anything else, it uses the only three things you need to sell anything in life.

Whether thatā€™s selling yourself in a job interview, selling your businessā€™ services and products, or getting someone to open one of your newsletters (ahem, think about what youā€™re reading right now ;)).

And thereā€™s one single reason why it works so wellā€¦

Why It Works So Well šŸ¤” 

Look, we all have problems in life.

And we all want to find the best solution we possibly can in order to solve those problems.

Hereā€™s the thing, humans are emotional creatures. We canā€™t help the way we feel throughout our daily lives.

Happiness, sadness, frustration, anger, joyā€¦ whatever.

Letā€™s say Iā€™m facing this big, bad business problem in my life: Iā€™m struggling to find clients to work with. Which meansā€¦

No clients = No $$$ = No business = No bueno.

Now, letā€™s say (hypothetically, of course) I meet you at a party and we start talking. Business comes up and I tell you about how hard itā€™s been to find clients and get my business off the ground.

And oh, what luck! You happen to run your own business where you help people like me get more clients through a targeted outreach system, resulting in more clients for myself.

You ask me more about how Iā€™ve tried to get more business, why Iā€™m struggling to find new clients, how thatā€™s impacting my business and personal lifeā€¦ yada yada.

Then we eventually strike a deal where I pay you to help me get more clients for my own business, which I ultimately do.

Throughout that entire conversation, you identified a very specific, very painful problem I had. You agitated that problem and dug deeper to understand how it was affecting me. And then you sold me the solution to my problem.

It worked because you made me feel something when I was explaining my problem to you. And you made me feel like you were the only one that could help me solve my problem.

You see?

The PAS framework works so well because it plays into human psychology.

And that, my friend, is an incredibly powerful thing.

Anyyyywaysā€¦ this was obviously a business example.

So how exactly can you use the PAS framework in your own life, whether you want to use it to make money, get into college, or anything else in between?

How to Use It šŸ“ 

Itā€™s simple reallyā€¦ you identify a painful problem. You tell a story and use details to agitate that problem. And then you show how you used a solution to solve that problem.

Here are a few examples that might help:

Business example: Identify the biggest problem your customer is facing. Agitate that problem using stories and examples. Then act as the doctor and ā€œprescribeā€ your product or service as the solution.

Job interview example: Use the PAS framework to share a story of how you overcame a difficult problem in your life. Or identify a problem the company is facing and how youā€™ll help solve it if you work there.

Content creation example: Write a headline or subject line that leverages curiosity and promises to solve a problem. Tell stories or use examples of how the problem impacts the reader. Give a solution of how to solve the problem or steps they can take to solve the problem.

Dating example: Just say, ā€œIā€™m not like those other guys.ā€ (Jk, Iā€™m sure thereā€™s a way you can use itā€¦ I just havenā€™t found it yet šŸ˜…).

You see, sales is just a natural part of life.

So the next time you need to sell yourself, your business, or your clever ideas, use the PAS framework and let me know how it goes.

Thatā€™s it for this week. Iā€™ll talk with ya next week.

Cheers,

Connor ā€œIā€™m not like those other guysā€ Flynn

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